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05章知人(3/4)

志者,谓方与之言,以察其志。其气宽以柔,其色检而不谄,其礼先人,其言后人,每自见其所不足者,是益人也。若好临人以色、高人以气、胜人以言,防其所不足,而废其所不能者,是损人也。(太公曰:“博文辩辞,高行论议,而非时俗,此奸人也。王者慎勿宠之也。”)

其貌直而不侮,其言正而不私,不饰其美、不隐其恶、不防其过者,是质人也。(又曰:与之不为喜,夺之不为怒,沉静而寡言,多信而寡貌者,是质静人也。议曰:太公曰:“朴其身头,恶其衣服,语无为以求名,言无欲以求得,此伪人也。王者慎勿近之。夫质人之中有如此之伪者也。”)

若其貌曲媚,其言谀巧,饰其见物,务其小证,以故自说者,是无质人也。(议曰:晏子云:“谗夫佞人之在君侧,材能皆非常也。夫藏大不诚于中者,必谨小诚于外,以成其大不诚。此难得而知也。荀悦曰:“察人情术,观其言行,未必合道,而悦于己者,必佞人也;观其言行,未必悦己而合于道者,必正人也。”此察人之情之一端也。)

喜怒以物而色不作,烦乱以事而志不惑,深导以利而心不移,临慑以威而气不卑者,是平心固守人也。(又曰:荣之以物而不娱,犯之以卒而不惧,置义而不迁,临货而不回者,是果正人也。议曰:孔子称:“取人之法,无取健。健,贪也。夫健之弊有如此者矣。”)

若喜怒以物而心变易,乱之以事而志不治,示之以利而心迁动,慑之以威而气恇惧者,是鄙心而假气人也。(又曰:若格易以言,志不能固,已诺而不决者,是情弱之人也。)

设之以物而数决,惊之以卒而屡应,不文而慧者,是有智思之人。(议曰:太公云:“有名而无实,出入异言,扬美掩恶,进退为功,王者慎勿与谋。夫智思之人,弊于是矣。”)

若难设以物,难说以言,守一而不知变,固执而不知改,是愚佷人也。(议曰:志士守操,愚佷难变。夫不变是同,而愚智异者,以道为管也。何以言之?《新语》云:“夫长于变者,不可穷以诈;通于道者,不可惊以怪;审于辞者,不可惑以言;达于义者,不可动以利。故君子闻见欲众而采择欲谨,学问欲博而行己欲敦。目不淫炫耀之色,耳不乱阿谀之辞。虽利以齐鲁之富而志不移,设以松乔之寿而行不改,然后能一其道而定其操,致其事而立其功,观其道业。”此其所以与愚佷异也。)

若屏言而勿顾,自私而不护,非是而强之,是诬嫉人也。(议曰:刘备以客见诸葛亮而贤之,亮曰:“观客色动而神惧,视低而忤数。奸形外露,邪心内藏。必曹氏刺客。”后果然。夫奸人容止,大抵如是。

何晏、夏侯玄、邓扬等,求交于傅嘏而不纳也。或怪而问之,嘏曰:“泰初志大,其量能合虚声而无实才;何平叔言远而情近,好辩而无诚,所谓利口覆国之人也;邓玄茂有为而无终,外要名利,内无关钥,贵同而恶异,多言而妒前。多言多败衅,妒前而无功。以吾观此三人,皆败德也。远之犹恐祸及,况昵之乎?”后皆如嘏言。夫妒者之行,有如此者。)

此之谓考志。

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